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Past Love Tips
To make your relationships work –
Practice the 4 C’s
- Christ:
What would Jesus do? If you are a believer you should treat everyone
as God’s children and a blessing not a curse.
- Control:
When dealing with your spouse or anyone exercise control in your
behavior, speech, tone and response.
- Communication:
Communication can be learned. Skills such as active listening,
using “I” statements, paying attention to your feelings and those of
your spouse, and learning tips for “fighting fair” make
relationships easier.
- Compromise: ALL situations require some form of compromise. You do not need to
nor should you expect to win every disagreement. If you feel
strongly about something let the other person know how important it
is to you.
Smile & Validate Your Mate!
Watch this short click to learn how to validate your partner
Healthy Marriage Habits to Practice
(Pick 2 or 3 from each area to work on for the Next
(21 Days)
Him for Her
1) Open her
car door.
2) Help her with some form of house work.
3) Do some activity with children to give her some alone time.
4) Find her Love Language and do something for her that relates
to it.
5) Give her shoulder or back rub.
Her for Him
1) Communicate
any concerns positively without attitude or drama.
2) Find his Love Language and do something for him that relates
to it.
3) Sleep in sexy night attire. Just say NO to flannel.
4) Give him shoulder or back rub.
5) Find creative ways to be more Flirtatious and/or Attractive
Them for Them
1) Take
showers together.
2) Hug & Kiss each other when entering or leaving the home.
3) Read a good book TOGETHER.
4) Make love everyday.
5) Spend 30 minutes a day, 15 minutes each, to talk and
communicate.
6) Do some type of physical activity TOGETHER. Walk, Run,
Workout, etc.
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